I often receive e-mails from young writers in high school and even younger, and I’m always so impressed with them and even a little bit jealous.
I had no idea I wanted to be a writer when I was in high school and I rue all those years I could have spent honing my craft. And even if I had known I wanted to be a writer, I didn’t have the Internet to reach out to other authors and learn more about what it takes to write a novel.
These young people are getting such a head start on their careers, and I can’t wait to see the incredible books they produce.
There’s a long tradition of writers offering advice to young writers, perhaps none greater than Rainer Maria Rilke’s Letters to a Young Poet. I can’t top that, but here’s my own modest contribution to the genre.
Here’s my advice for young writers:
Don’t write for the writer you are now. Write for the writer you’re going to become.
Writers aren’t born, they are made. It takes most writers years and years to hone their craft, and it’s helpful to have had years and years of reading experience. By the time you’ve reached high school you have lived enough to have tasted the world and it may feel like you’re ready to channel it all into a novel, but don’t expect that your writerly success will come immediately.
Yes, there are occasional wunderkinds that defy this rule. But even S.E. Hinton, who published The Outsiders when she was sixteen, had already written several novels before that one.
Within the publishing industry, you won’t be judged based on your age, you’ll be judged against other writers who have spent years and even decades writing. Being good for your age isn’t enough. You have to be good period, and it’s difficult to achieve that level with limited experience.
Don’t judge your writing success by whether you’re able to find publication immediately. Instead, write to get better, write for catharsis and practice and fun. Your future self will be thankful for the time well spent.
Create the world you want, but don’t leave the one you’re in
Teenage years can be incredibly difficult. You might feel trapped by parents, peers, or a school that doesn’t understand you or even mistreats you. You have limited control over your life even as you’re old enough to grasp that there is something more out there, if only you were allowed to go and get it.
Writing can be an incredible release. It gives you the ability to create a world that’s better than the one you’re living in. It gives you the power you don’t have in your day-to-day life.
Use it well. But don’t disengage with the world you’re living in. Writing can feel like a substitute for real life, but it’s important to find people in the real one who you can talk to, whether that’s friends, a teacher, or fellow writers. Don’t let your characters be a substitute for real-world relationships.
Don’t be afraid to imitate at first
Nearly every writer who starts out can see the fingerprints of their favorite writers in their work. This is normal.
Don’t be alarmed if you feel like you’re writing someone else’s book at first. Push forward. Keep writing. Even take up fan fiction if you want to.
It takes time to learn how to craft a plot, to write sophisticated dialogue, to infuse your work with emotional depth. It takes many writers years to hone these skills.
One thing you can do in the meantime is to find your voice. Write, write, and write some more. In the beginning your work might sound like someone else. But eventually you’ll make it your own.
Don’t ever apologize for being a writer
Adults often underestimate teenagers. They treat them as if they are still children, when it’s not true, and they may not think you’re capable of being a great writer when you absolutely are. Or, possibly worse, they might try to indulge you and be overly enthusiastic, when you know they secretly are not taking you seriously and think your writing is a phase you’re going to grow out of.
Your writing is worthwhile. Your writing is important. Don’t let anyone tell you any differently.
There are a lot of people in life who never try to achieve their dreams. They would rather sit back and be a critic than an artist, because it’s easier to see what’s wrong with someone else’s work than to create your own. There will always be naysayers. But…
Writers write
So go for it. There is a whole world waiting for you to bring it to fruition.
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Alex McGrath says
Great advice Nate. Especially the last part.
Bridget Higdon says
Thanks for this advice! It's great to know that young, high school writers like myself are acknowledged within the literary community.
Would it be too much to ask, that if you had a free moment, you could check out my book blog? I review the novels I read, as well as share my thoughts about being (and becoming) a writer. I've been looking for some advice on how to get the blog out to a larger audience, so if you had a brief moment I would love to hear from you. Thanks so much for what you post here on your own blog, and for any time you might be able to share!
https://www.off-the-shelf1.blogspot.com/?m=1
Neurotic Workaholic says
This is all great advice, especially the part about not apologizing for being a writer. When I was younger, several people criticized my dream of writing; ever since I've kept my writing aspirations a secret. Your post made me think of one of my grade school teachers, who taught us how to write short stories; if it hadn't been for her, I might have had a very different life.
Ken Furie says
Nathan, your words are kind, thoughtful, and insightful. Thanks for doing this.
One point I would add, while you young writers write write write, is to live. Live today and every day. The mind is a wonderful place to dwell and hone your craft and your imagination. But engaging with life is a chance to inhabit the full spectrum of emotions, and to experience the richness of human depths, from which you will cast your best stories.
Chris Bailey says
Great advice! I wish I had heard that advice when I was in high school–or middle school. It's possible that someone said those very things. I just knew way too much then.
Heather Wright says
Fantastic post. I have a website especially for young writers. May I have permission to repost your blog on my website? Your advice is perfect for my readers. My website is https://wrightingwords.wordpress.com. I will be adding your blog post to my list of resources for young writers. Thanks.
Becky Nguyen says
Thanks Nate! I'm 22 so just stepped out of that teenager phase but your advice seems to apply to everyone who writes.
Caroline says
This is great advice Nate, especially your second point. It reminds of writing advice that I recall Neil Gaiman giving a few years back – that in order to write you also need to go out and live.
I'm in my 30's now and was fairly prolific in my teens and early twenties. However, in my late twenties I stopped writing (fiction) altogether.
I'm just getting started again with writing, but I don't regret those few years nor see them as wasted because I was living and all that experience I now take with me when I sit down at the keyboard and 'bleed'.
This would be my advice to young writers also. Keep writing and keep reading but also experience all that life has to offer – good and bad. Don't be afraid of it.
Anonymous says
You inspired an older established writer today, too, with this post 🙂 Been dealing with family issues and this really just hit the spot.
Amy Isaman says
Great post – as a writer and high school creative writing teacher, I love the simplicity of your advice, especially #3. It takes time to find for teens to find their voice and then get the confidence to embrace it. I'll be sharing these with my in-person kids this fall and with my virtual teen writers on my website – http://www.whereteenswrite.com.
Thanks!
Ian Roberts says
Dear Nathan,
I really like your Jacob Wonderbar book about the Cosmic Space Kapow, whatever that means. I'm looking forward to reading the other books, and maybe even more that you write. I hope you write more books along your adventure of life.
Just so you know, I'm Ian. I'm 7. I've got a blog of my own.
Nathan Bransford says
Awesome, thanks so much Ian!
Nathan Bransford says
Bridget –
Looking forward to checking out your blog!
Heather-
Feel free to link to this post – I ask that people not do a full reprint though to keep the discussion lively here. Thanks!
Tommy Tom says
Very impressive thoughts.