Hello! I am back, after what I realized was my first extended blog break in five years. Five years! My how the time flies. I haven’t been idle this past month as I have been hard at work finishing Wonderbar #3, but it still feels a bit strange to be getting back to the blog game.
To that end, I thought I’d tackle one of the most dangerous moments for any writer: The long break.
I’ve known writers who hit their stride, were interrupted for one reason or another, and then days turned into weeks turned into months and they were never able to get back in the saddle. All that work was squandered. Breaks = kryptonite achilles heel termite ridden ankle breaking weakening things. Don’t let long breaks destroy you!
So. Once you break your writing rhythm, how do you get it back?
Here’s how I do it:
Know that your first day back will not be productive
You must know that your first day back after a long absence will not be as productive as a normal day. This is okay. Knowing is the first stage of not panicking and not getting down on yourself. Don’t set page goals, don’t be hard on yourself. Just focus on getting your rhythm back. That’s all you need to accomplish.
Don’t head straight for the novel
Instead of going right back to my novel and feeling the crushing weight of the blinking cursor, I start off by writing something, anything other than fiction. E-mails, blog posts, forum posts, you name it. Chances are you have stuff that has piled up, and it’s easier to write an e-mail than figuring out what is going to happen next in your novel.
Don’t procrastinate endlessly, but get the words flowing for an easier reentry. Then it’s time to…
Badger yourself into opening up your novel and getting started again even if it feels like you are peeling off your own skin.
It can feel so incredibly intimidating to start again. You might not remember where you left off. You had gotten used to filling your time with episodes of Downton Abbey.
Writing is hard. Getting back into writing is really, really hard.
Do whatever you have to do to get that file open. Cursing and threats of bodily harm against yourself are perfectly acceptable. So are rewards. Just get the dang file or notepad open.
Start somewhere easy
When you do crack open the old novel, start somewhere that will get things flowing and keep your confidence high. Know a scene you want to write but aren’t there yet in the plot? Write it anyway. Need to do some revising to get back into the rhythm? Awesome, start there.
Writing a novel is full of tasks large and small, everything from figuring out the whole freaking plot to making sure the chapters are numbered properly. Tackling one of those smaller tasks still gets you closer to the finish line, and sometimes they can help you get back in rhythm.
Don’t get down on yourself
Remember, the first day back is just about getting back into it. It’s not going to be your best day. It might not be fun. But you did it. You’re back in the saddle, which is why it’s so crucially important to…
Follow up with a good day of writing
You slogged your way back into writing. Don’t waste it! Chase it as quickly as possible with a good, solid, uninterrupted, productive chunk of time. Now you’ll have momentum. So keep it up!
Also: Shouting, “I’m back, baby!!” is strongly encouraged.
What about you? What’s your favorite technique for getting back in the writing groove?
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Josin L. McQuein says
It's a bit like rehab after a major injury, isn't it.
Take it slow.
Make steady progress.
Don't expect to start at your former level.
Etc, etc, etc.
Robin Reul says
Great advice! For me, whenever returning to a work I have been away from for awhile, whether it be a book I've not worked on for months, or a WIP I've had to put aside for a few weeks because life got in the way, I start by reading it from start to finish. Re-reading what's there refreshes my mind, and while I'm reading, inevitably I start to notice little things I want to edit, or ideas spark that I want to include. It puts me back in the skin of the characters anew. If I'm still struggling, I will often read or re-read a book that has similar subject matter to what I've written and see what the author did well and why it's working. I take notes and try and find ways to bring the same momentum to my own story.
Rebecca Bradley says
This is a timely post for me. January seems to make my mind feel leaden. Great advice and a great time of year for it as I imagine I'm not the only one who feels this way.
Rashad Pharaon says
Good to see you blogging again! To get back into the rythm, I like to throw myself into a story's prologue (which I end up never using). It's just enough to warm up the engines for the first day or two before I type out: C-h-a-p-t-e-r–1.
Best,
Rashad.
Donna Yates says
These are all great suggestions. The most important thing, as you said, is to just do it.
L. Shanna says
Love this! And glad you're back!
Anna says
Welcome back! And thanks as always for the helpful tips.
Ada says
All so true. Thanks for spelling it out like that. I totally agree with the first commenter: it is a lot like rehabbing an injury. And you know what. Rehab = not a great time at first.
Mr. D says
Good to have you back.
Veronica and Thomas says
Welcome back Nathan! We've missed your humor and suggestions! BTW your twitter comment about Madonna last night made my husband about roll off the couch laughing!
Christy Farmer says
Great advice! That first day may not be productive, but the advice is solid:
Just start!
Welcome back, Nathan!
Jesse Koepke says
By long break, you mean the gap between today's writing and tomorrow's, right? This is a great list for even a break over the weekend. Thanks, Nathan.
Rick Daley says
For me, I need to completely remove all distractions. I wake up early while the house is quiet and hit the computer. No email, Facebook, Twitter, blogging, or surfing until I met my starting goal (which may be as few as 500 words).
WORD VERIFICATION: inkies. Writers who prefer pen and paper to the computer.
PS My book THE MAN IN THE CINDER CLOUDS is only $1.99 on Kindle!
Matthew MacNish says
I've always found other creative writing to be the answer. Especially fun, easy stuff like flash fiction. But I also like how you point out that writing anything, even email, is still writing, and is better than not writing.
Nice to have you back, NB, and for the Clippers to be in first.
Ann Best says
I can't add anything to this. You just have to sit down and write something! Hope you enjoyed your break.
Ann Best, Author of In the Mirror & Other Memoirs
abc says
How did you know about the Downton Abbey?!
Vanessa K. Eccles says
I loved this post. It was just want I needed to hear. I've been on a long break, for about six months because of school, and I think this advice will help me get back into the swing of things. Thanks! š
Hiroko says
After a break from writing, I'll often skim over what happened last in the novel and brainstorm how to continue. I like preparing myself for not just the first day return, but for the rest of the writing days that follow.
Steph Damore says
Hope you had a wonderful break. I'm terrible at getting back to it. Hoping to gain some ideas here.
Bryan Russell says
Aloha!
I'm with Robin; reading your work is helpful. If you start reading your work, you'll start seeing the story inside your head again. The characters will start moving and talking. Now you're back inside the story, and when you read up to that blank page in the manuscript it will feel much more natural to simply continue on, putting the new words on the page to fill that blank space.
Vera Soroka says
This is a timely post. I've been writing but had a week and a half off before getting back to another ms to hopefully finish up this month. This one has been like pulling teeth out of a wild horse. Today is awful. I just can't seem to see any point but yet I can't let this one go. Keep going I guess and hope I figure it out.
~Sia McKye~ says
It's hard to get back to it when you've been away, that's for sure.
I also start slow. I write other things–god knows I have enough of those to keep me occupied. I also try to write something fun that loosens me up.
I'm realistic and know while I might have been putting out a couple thousand or more words when I was in the groove, I'm not in that groove yet. First I have to get all the dust out of that groove and I hate housekeeping.
I love your idea of writing a scene you've been thinking of adding even though you're not there in the story yet.
Yes, I do mutter and shout. I've been known to threaten death and destruction, and channel Captain Picard–Make it so, #1.
Enjoyed your points, Nathan, they were good ones.
Sia McKye OVER COFFEE
Steven J. Wangsness says
Good advice, Nathan. Now that my mystery novel TAINTED SOULS is up and running on Kindle, and I'm done will all the formatting for Smashwords, too, I really have excuse for not getting back into the writing of the work in progress.
That doesn't mean I won't find an excuse, of course….
Pamala Knight says
Thanks for the great advice Nathan. Nice to have you back.
Stephonavich says
You have so much good stuff that honestly, I was glad to catch up on it without the added pressure of ākeeping upā. Thank you for coming back to it, but also thank you for letting me catch up!
Catherine says
Thanks for the encouragement. I've been on such a long hiatus (2 months!) from my novel and, besides a few blog posts, have done very little writing, to the point that I don't even know if this comment is grammatically correct.
Melanie says
A lot of times I'll listen to specific music while writing a certain novel. If I take a break, I'll get back into it by first listening to that music again, think about my characters. Then I'll read what I wrote previously, make a few edits until I get to the place I left off, and then I'm back!
Mira says
Yay! Nathan's back! Nathan, with his intelligence and fun, interesting discussions and his wonderful humor. Yay!!
I missed you, Nathan!!!!!
And you're right. 5 years is too long without a break. So, I'm really glad you took a rest and please do take many more breaks in the future so you can rest and be energized.
But in the meantime, it's so nice to have you back!
I really like this post, especially since I'm struggling with it. I was writing before Grad school, but I've had a terrible time getting back to it. It's validating to have you write a whole post about this, and I appreciate the suggestions here alot – thanks!
Robena Grant says
Glad you're back, and that you got to work on book #3.
I like the advice. Especially the bit about writing out of order. I sometimes do that and write a scene that is a few chapters ahead. Just seeing the word count increase is enough to make me feel good, and get me back into the work with enthusiasm.
Susy says
Good to see you had a productive break!
I had to go back and start small with a new short story before tackling the novel head on.
Short story = fun, short sharp and getting me in shape to climb that jolly mountain again aka novel
Sigal says
Thanks! I really needed to hear this. Going to take your advice and tackle something small in the novel tomorrow.
Karen says
I haven't been away from my WIP but my computer crashed and burned over the weekend and took all my backups with it. (Lesson learned not to trust my computer with my backups.) I do have some work saved in another location but it's not everything. Trying to start again is really difficult after this major blow.
Imagine my delight when I read your post. Your advice is so timely and gives me comfort that I will recover and get back into the groove. A big thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Cathy Mealey says
Fortunately there are a finite number of Downton Abbey episodes…
Sommer Leigh says
I'm very happy to see you back Nathan!
Janne says
YAY! Nathan is back! I'm sure I speak for many people when I say I missed your posts!
wendy says
Welcome Back, Stranger. š
Nice to read you again. This post couldn't be more timely as I started back on Winter Roses again only last week…after some positive self-talk. The novel is finished, but it always needs fine-tuning. When I sent the first chapter to you, Nathan, a year ago, I managed to paste one of the paras in the wrong spot. (Concentration not everything it could be.) I didn't find it hard to get back in the swing, except I'd forgotten some of the finer points. Luckily I'd done illustrations for the story, and that jogged the memory. 'Oh, that character has a dimple in his chin.'
BeccaLathorn says
Staring at my keyboard usually works.
Natalie Aguirre says
I need to follow your advice. Because I'm being pulled in too many directions which don't include my manuscript.
Anonymous says
I once went through a serious family crisis and had to stop writing for three months. I spent three months watching a family member in the ICU. Editors were great. They told me to take my time and not to rush. But I started to worry how I would write again. I'd never taken that much time off.
But it just happened. One day the family crisis started to get better and I started to write again. Writing actually took me away from all the intense drama I'd been dealing with. It was therapy. When you experience this once, you always know that even if you have to stop for a while, you'll go back eventually. It's a good feeling.
Nancy Kelley says
Thank you, Nathan. I'm trying to get back to my novel after two months off. I've had several false starts–hopefully your advice will make my next attempt more productive.
D.G. Hudson says
Treat it like an old friend you haven't seen for a while.
OR
Start with short fiction, as some others have said.
Nice to see you back, Nathan.
TeresaR says
Sometimes it's hard to get back into writing after getting up to get another cup of tea.
This was an awfully great post for your being out-of-writing-shape from your break. š
Ishta Mercurio says
"I'm back, baby!" LOLOL!
Great post. Josin summed it up well. I usually start with revision, and then go to that scene I've been itching to write but haven't gotten to yet. The trick is keeping the momentum going, isn't it? Not stopping when you're this close to finishing. Maintaining that momentum once you get it back is key.
Welcome back to the blog!
Imogen says
I find that when I've been away from writing for a bit, just sitting down and writing something, a few words in the novel, a character sketch, a thought for a story, or even not writing but listening to writing music gets me going again. When I sit down and put my fingers to the keys with my earphones in, I know it's time to work, and I do. Force of habit I think.
Donna OShaughnessy says
Excellent advice. Wish I'd had it 6 months ago but no worries. I am sure I'll use it the next time I get sidetracked on my novel. Life sure gets in the way of writing about life.
Donna Amis Davis says
Timely word, Nathan. Thanks! I need to get back to my novel after a long break. So want to finish it this year!
J.C. Martin says
Welcome back, Nathan! And this post comes at a most opportune time. When I finished my final edits for my novel and subbed to my publisher at the start of January, I thought I deserved a break and rewarded myself with one. Well, I'm still "rewarding" myself, and finding it hard to get back in the swing of things! Time to get butt back into chair…
Hillsy says
Hey dude, welcome back.
Hope you better anyways – "sick as a dog" is rarely a good description for anyones state of health.
WV – Phaltio: (I can't, it's too easy!!!)
Lauren says
Welcome back, Nathan!
For me, rereading what I've already written gets me back into writing mode.
Ainsley Shay says
great post!! we expect so much from ourselves and sometimes we need to give ourselves "permission" to ease back into the routine of writing great.
thanks